Saturday, May 19, 2007

Love Actually


The morning sun shone as bright as it ever did in the city of Chennai, especially considering it was the month of May. The rays pierced through the window like bright needles from the blue. It was not just another day, definitely not. This day, 22 memorable years ago, she entered into marital bliss with a person she had not spoken a word to and had looked at for an embarrassing 3 seconds. Strange was the way how certain life-changing decisions took shape - paying little importance and consideration to the opinion of the person concerned. But trust and hope was all that was needed then.


Twenty two years had now passed. She lay on the bed beside the man of her life and asked herself, “Has anything that you have done made your life better?” She looked at the person beside her and simply smiled - the answer was right here. In fact, she corrected herself, “He is the best thing that has ever happened in my life.” She recollected some of their best and worst times together. She realized how ultimately, they had managed to pass the test of a true relationship – to disagree but to hold hands, always.


Feeling wonderful and special, she finally pulled herself out of bed, careful enough not to disturb him from his deep slumber. She enjoyed her warm shower to its very last drop. Draped in a light green sari, her wet hair tied up inside a towel, she began her usual chores of the day. She lit the lamp in the puja room and placed the kumkum in the middle of her forehead. Among the many things that she could do perfectly, this was one. Every time and anytime of the day, she could keep kumkum in the middle of her forehead in a prefect circle - and most importantly, without looking at the mirror.


She walked into the kitchen, chanting slokas and began making coffee. Within a few minutes, she heard sounds from her bedroom and knew that her man was up. The irony remained that in all these years, he most often awoke to the intoxicating smell of filter coffee, rather than the annoying whistle of the cooker! She grinned to herself and began cutting vegetables for the day’s lunch. As she was on with her work, she realized how beautifully and interestingly their lives had intertwined into one another. This reminded her of a quote, “An archeologist is the best husband any woman can have; the older she gets, the more interested he is in her.” She badly wished the author of this quote would walk down to their home so that she could prove his words wrong.


Continuing with her work, she acted as though she hadn’t noticed her husband behind her back He came up from behind and whispered something that she had least expected him to say that morning. He breathed into her ears, “En coffee enga di?” (Where is my coffee?) Fighting her emotions for having to face such a dramatic beginning to the eventful day, she pointed to the dining table. Just then, something managed to catch her eye and she looked back towards the dining table. Standing there was their daughter. In her hand was a bouquet of red roses and a bunch of balloons. Handing over these to her mother, the girl wished them a Happy Wedding Anniversary.


The beautiful woman looked up at her husband and blushed. Spontaneously, he embraced her into a warm hug and winked at his daughter from behind. His daughter smiled back at him and gestured a thumbs up. She left them to themselves in the kitchen and walked back into her room. For the first time in her life, she realized ‘What an amazing feeling it is to discover that you know another person as good as you know yourself… and sometimes even better.’ Her parents proved the best example.


P.S.1: My parents celebrate their Wedding Anniversary on 22nd May. Just thought of dedicating this post for them.

P.S.2: It was quite ironic that everyone (except me!) seemed to celebrate the fact of me turning a year older! My heartiest thanks to all those who dedicated posts for my birthday and wished me. Special thanks to those awesome gifts that surprised me. Thanks a ton guys! It means a lot to me. Huuugggzzz!!!


28 comments:

Anonymous said...

well said !!! many many thanks !!!

Ash said...

Nice blog!!! What a way to wish your parents a happy anniversary...

Reallllllllllly Cute :)

Arunkumar said...

Awesome dedication Prithz. Well done..

G3 said...

One more cute post :-)))

Happy wedding anniversary to your parents :-)))

Kuttibalu said...

Damm(e) Gud :) Wishes to ur appa and amma...

KK said...

Awesome post!!! Padam paartha maathiri irunthuchu....
//What an amazing feeling it is to discover that you know another person as good as you know yourself… and sometimes even better.’//

very nicely put... :)

Anniversary wishes to your parents! :)

Unknown said...

First of all anniversary wishes to your amma and appa. And also convey my ADVANCED BIRTHDAY WISHES TO THEM!!

Unknown said...

//he left them to themselves in the kitchen and walked back into her room..//

Adra adra adra! oru ponnu'na ippadi dhaane irukanum!!! :D :D :D

Unknown said...

Oru vela andha kutti ponnu neeyo? :P

Vidya Natarajan said...

happy anniversary to ur parents!
real cute post
aptly put!!!
as usual a nice post that makes one smile!!

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gils said...

//An archeologist is the best husband any woman can have; the older she gets, the more interested he is in her.” //

idhu chancelaatha comment

heyyy..un parentsum blogginga..like sandakozhi..great..hearty wishes to them too :)

//What an amazing feeling it is to discover that you know another person as good as you know yourself… and sometimes even better.’//
intha comment aprum antha coffee scene..enakenamo maniratnam padam paatha mari iruku..kalakara complan...supera ezhuthara...sea horse neria mutta podutuhu pola :D :D LOL

Archun said...

Very beautiful!! Wish your parents a very happy anniversary! And wish you too a belated happy b'day!!

Unknown said...

Even though Im invisible to you
you dont know me too
you have your friends & family,
the love for music by your side

Well, happy birthday stanger friend

May this one be the best one yet.
peace and Love to you,
nice cash flow too.
Happy Birthday to you.

and May God bless you,
with good health,
family giving you their best
and another birthday on top of that...

Birthday reminds us age, is a limit we impose upon ourselves. Each time when we celebrate our birthday we build another fence around our minds. I wish you have guardless yet defended Life.

/Yuva

dakaltiz said...

hey prithz..a very nice one.. for ur parents...sure they wud be proud of u...

Warm wishes to them...

chk out my space wen u get time..smwhat similar post..is there...

Sat said...

enakku oru unmai therinju aaganum...are you a 35(+) year old???...pinna ezhuthula ivalo maturity!...it's amazing to see such a wide range of emotions in one's work...esp when they have not been through those moments yet in their life...someone told me experience teaches you how to bring out the happennings in ur life in words...you make a joke out of it girl...
Best wishes to ur parents

P.S: is this wedding anniversary season??
P.P.S: first comment nejamave un parentsa...

Ganesh Ranganathan said...

enna ma ezhudara....sabaash...

congrats to your parents...

Harish said...

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!
Are you really studying? If you are really not, then better you start writing stories for Maniratnam type romantics. Every scene was so descriptive and cute. The way you have beautifully worded them makes it extra special.
Post after post...U r rocking gal!!!!!

Harish said...

Btw...forgot one thing.
My hearty wishes to your parents wedding anniversary. Wish them more happiness in the years to come :-)

Subramanian Ramachandran said...

Hey cute post prithz

>>this day, 22 memorable years ago, she entered into marital bliss with a person she had not spoken a word to and had looked at for an embarrassing 3 seconds. Strange was the way how certain life-changing decisions took shape - paying little importance and consideration to the opinion of the person concerned. But trust and hope was all that was needed then.

a nice one... Heartfelt wishes to appa, amma on their wedding anniversary :)

Confused Soul said...

Belated wishes to your parents!That was a real sweet post :)

Vidya Natarajan said...

hey chk my blog for my radio blog station in my latest blog
zanychild
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Unknown said...

Oyi.. it's time for a new post, I guess. :)

Krithika said...

my best wishes to ur parents :)it's nice tat u have put urslf in their shoes and talked abt ur perception of their emotions.it kinda grabbed my attention..quite different frm ur usual posts.tats wat i think

Kausikram Krishnasayee said...

i tried to cook for my parents anniv...
finally they took me to the hotel.
(fill the ellipses with imaginations of the most disastrous cooking accident that ever happened)

Da Rodent said...

sweet.. :)

Guna said...

heyy...enga amma appakkum May 22nd thaan wedding anniversary.

Happy wedding anniversary to your parents :)

Unknown said...

Next posht pleasueseuseusue! :)

prithz said...

@ amma appa:
Just for you :)

@ ashwin:
Thks da! :)

@ arunkumar:
Hey! Tks a ton!

@ g3:
Tks g3! Your wishes passed on :)

@ kutti balu:
Tks a lot! :)

@ kk:
Hey! Tks man! Ungalukku edha paathalum padam maadiri theriyume. :D Idha direct pandrela? :P

@ karthik b.s.:
Tks da! Conveyed wishes to my parents.

Andha kutti ponnu naanu koda vechukalaame :D

@ zanychild:
Hey!! Tks a lot! Glad u liked the post :)

@ gils:
Hey! Tks man! Glad u enjoyed it. Parents blogging laam illa. Padika sonne. Ava vandhu comment um potirka :)

@ archun:
Hey tks girl! :)

@ yuva:
That was a wodnerful poem! Tks a lot! And yes, this birthday was one of my best :)

@ dakaltiz:
Hey! Tks! Glad you liked it. I read all ur posts a few months ago. Seems like u havnt had much time to update. Waiting for a post from you.

@ sat:
Hehe! Ivalo kelvi kaeta na enga poga. Enna paathu 35 ah nu kaeka epdi ungalukku manasu vandhuthu :'(

Well, ippo over ah padam paaka aramechu ipdi oru cocktail of emotions running in my mind. Adhan conjoured here.

And yes, May is the season of bday's and wedding anniversaries i guess. Lastly, the first comment is indeed from my parents.

@ ganesh:
Thks man! Glad u liked it.

@ harish:
Hey! Tks a lot! Really glad you liked it. Unga dedication was ulti. Adhuku, idhulaam onnume illa.

Ennaku oru degree ippove kodutha venam na solla poren. Director, script writer, producer laam ready ah vechundu, na inga padichindriken! Kodumai!

@ rsubras:
Tks anna! I liked those lines too! :)

@ confused soul:
Hey! Tks! :)

@ krithika:
Tks girl! Change is always a nice thing! :)

@ mark isuak:
Hehe! Nalla iruke idhu! Next time nanum try pandren adha :D

@ da rodent:
Tks n welcome here! :)

@ guna:
Wow! That's cool! Wishes to them too! :)